Escaping In My Mind

Sometimes the summer causes us to want to scream! The heat alone can make you want to stay inside, depending on what part of the world you live in.

Many things happen right before summer approaches. Family members graduate from one level in life to the next. In my recently released novel, my character Jasmine is graduating and the one thing she is stressed about is the desire to see her family that she can't rely on to be supportive. Isn't that how life goes? You work hard and you still hope to have someone cheering for you in your corner or any corner. 

Summer can be dreadful depending on what part of the stick you are on. End of school term celebrations, end of work quarter reviews, family reunion, class reunions, holidays, and birthdays...all come piling down at once. There's family you have to prepare your mind to see, there are vacations you plan to take and those you dread to take. There are co-workers you have to play nice with, while wishing that maybe someone will call you out of the meeting. After the few months pass you reflect and say "What the hell just happened?"

Instead of waiting until the end of the summer to reflect, consider planning time for you. Four escapes that will help you have peace of mind have to be on your list of things for you!

Meditate: Be a best friend to yourself. Go to a spa, pamper yourself with a manicure and pedicure. Think of positive words of affirmation, as you let your mind escape the normal day to day activities.

Create: Grab your arts, crafts and wine! Sketch, paint or draw a canvas using the colors that reflect inspiration!

Read: Escape by reading a book you bought to help you challenge that issue you are dealing with. Or read the new installment from the Chance series "Not By Chance" to help inspire you and help you escape a world of bliss!

 Nature: Sit with nature. Go hiking on a trail and let yourself free as nature speaks to you.

Remember its summer and even you deserve to escape the day to day! Plan for you today!

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How to Give Mind Blowing Fellatio for Him?

I’m contemplating if I will place his cock in my mouth? 

Have you ever found yourself in such predicament? Sex is to be enjoyed; great sex involves both people being excited!  I have met many women whom expressed they give blow jobs as if it is something to do with the passing of time. In return, those same women tell me their guy strayed. 

I ask does he not give you pleasurable cunnilingus? 

“Absolutely, yes” they respond!  

Yet, some women correlate the act of giving pleasure, as demeaning.   

Then there are women that view it as an art of love making. Remember, great sex requires two excited participants. The receiver and giver should to agree to be in a state of ecstasy together.

In my novel, Jasmine Chance asks herself if she should give Drew Rodd an unforgettable experience of pleasure. After he wooed her, Jasmine was inspired to give something in return to him.

Are you a selfish lover? Do you give just as much as you receive? It’s easy to receive but giving is not only pleasurable, it holds so much power.

When Jasmine decided to give to Drew, she was empowering herself by taking control of giving pleasure. In addition, she reminded him of the power he has. My character, Drew as many men is an alpha guy. 

He thrives off of power and the moment Jasmine's body drops, to meet his shaft, up close and personal he is reminded he is king of the jungle.

What am I saying? Being a giver to pleasure includes so much psychology. A woman needs to be empowered as she graces her day and a man needs to be reminded he is powerful, in charge of his fate. 

Some women neglect pleasing their guy and stray from giving with a happy heart. 

Only a strong, confident person rebels at the experience to be a mouth-slave unto their mate.   

While Jasmine comes to terms with giving to Drew, they both enjoy a hot night of pleasurable sex reciprocating pleasure to one another.  Remember a woman's inner power lies in her mind. Jasmine agreed with herself in her mind to satisfy Drew. Once she decided to enjoy pleasing him it became a great sex exchange.

Women hesitate daily to give pleasure to their lover, based on what others define, as a loss of respect.

However, one should remember, sex was not made only to multiply but it was designed to create many long heated nights of pleasure. 

Would you pass a beautiful garden, neglecting to take in the beauty? Could you leave behind your favorite meal that pleases your pallet? Pleasure gives one a boost in life and inspires individuals to be excited.  Reconsider and take power in giving!

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Focus on Me!

“I’m just going to focus on me!” How many times have I said this chant in my life?  If I got a cash advance each time I shouted that statement in high school being rich would be an understatement.

In J Bliss' upcoming book, Jasmine Chance is no stranger to battling relationships. Jasmine was getting ready to be married and found her fiancé occupying him self with another female. She witnessed him in the act of fuc**** some woman, ain’t life a Bi***.

A broken heart can be as shattered glass, unable to repair.

It’s a living hell! People can actually die of a broken heart. Did you know they even have a name for it, Broken Heart Syndrome? That knowledge alone blows me away; knowing your heart muscles actually weaken due to the loss of a loved one is unbelievable. The good news is it doesn’t have to happen.

While Jasmine professed to focus on her, she was starting to build herself and never knew it. She was mentally being empowered as a woman. For a woman, her inner power lies in her mind. Jasmine’s focus became to learn to love her and expect more for her. Once those cookies crumbled at her approval, higher expectations from a man could be considered. Her friend, Victoria believed she lived in denial expecting failure if entering a new relationship. 

Women break off relationships, it is not necessarily bad, what many women neglect is themselves in the process of moving on with their life. A woman’s inner power is in her mind. If a female only determines to empower herself mentally while disregarding the sexual aspect of being uplifted she is cheating herself. In other words; not having sex brings out the villain in a woman. Perhaps, I shouldn’t speak so frankly; however, if you have made it to this point, why should I mask now. Sex helps women just as it does a man. Jasmine will either learn this lesson or she will not, you keep checking back to find out!

 The question is will you? Instead of wondering how I can satisfy him, consider asking yourself, “What can I do to satisfy me?”

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